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Parental Substance Abuse & Budgeting Implications for Adult Children.

Substance abuse is a critical issue that affects not only individuals but also entire families. Parents can struggle with substance abuse, which can significantly impact their financial stability and budgeting habits. When adult children of substance-abusing parents start handling their finances, they often face various challenges. In this article, we'll explore the budgeting implications that arise from parents' substance abuse and how adult children can navigate these issues.

Increased Expenses: Substance abuse can lead to increased medical bills, legal fees, and costs associated with drug or alcohol addiction treatment. This can put a severe burden on a family's finances, particularly when parents cannot afford the necessary treatment. The costs may also force adult children to start contributing to their parents' expenses, which can not only disrupt or derail their own budgeting plans but affect their capability to save. In some cases may result in young adults or teens dropping out of school so that they can work more hours to help support their household -particularly, if there are younger siblings involved.

Unreliable Income: Parents' substance abuse can impact their job security and, therefore, their income. If they're unable to maintain a stable job, they may have problems meeting financial obligations such as rent, mortgage, or utility bills. This can place added pressure on adult children to provide financial assistance, which can compromise their own financial stability and educational prospects as these adult children often lack the funds or know how to obtain financial aid or scholarships.

Reduced Savings: Substance abuse by parents can end up leaving adult children with little or no inheritance. Parents can spend a considerable amount of their savings on their addiction, leaving fewer funds for children to inherit. Adult children may, therefore, have to depend on other sources of income to maintain their financial stability.

Financial Burden: Substance abuse can impact parents' credit ratings as they may accumulate debt and miss repayments, jeopardising their credit score. These poor credit ratings make it challenging for them to access credit in the future, which can lead to difficulty paying for essential services or purchases such as cars. Adult children may then have to step in and help pay for these items, which can place an additional financial burden on them.

Emotional Burden: Substance abuse can take a significant emotional toll on children, causing them immense psychological distress. This distress may manifest in affecting their financial health, such as through overspending. Adult children who have experienced trauma or emotional manipulation may see it difficult to develop healthy financial habits or stick to a budget. ​A study conducted out of West Virginia University School of Medicine’s Department of Behavioral Medicine and Psychiatry found that Children affected by parental substance abuse are virtually at higher risk for nearly every childhood disorder in the Diagnostic Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders Such as eating disorders, anxiety/depression as well as behavior disorders, post-traumatic stress, and substance abuse issues of their own. Additionally, these children often experience varying levels of fear, guilt, shame, loneliness, confusion, and anger.”

Substance abuse can have far-reaching financial implications for parents and their adult children. It's essential to develop constructive and sustainable budgeting strategies to manage substance abuse and its impact on finances. If you or your parents struggle with substance abuse and financial issues, it's advisable to seek support from professionals, such as financial advisers or therapists. Together, you can identify practical solutions to the financial challenges that arise from substance abuse, helping to build a brighter future one step at a time.

Are you, a loved one, or a friend struggling with a substance abuse disorder? If so, there’s help out there. Visit https://www.help.org/ , https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline , or call 1-800-662- HELP (4357).